Are You Still attracting Mr. Bare Minimum?
Men who are avoidant, emotionally unavailable, hot and cold, never fully present and avoid deep connection.
You give, they take – while you try to fix things, they prioritize everything but you which makes you feel like you are never good enough.
You are constantly walking on eggshells – never sure what will trigger them, always trying to keep the peace. You never feel safe and seen, always chasing crumbs, analyzing their words, questioning their commitment....
They never really apologize, shift the blame on you, make excuses, and refuse responsibility. Endless arguments leave you unheard and unappreciated.
You wonder if you’re just “too much” - feeling like you have to hide your needs and emotions because they might overwhelm him
And the worst thing is: no matter what you do you keep on attracting them over and over again.
The cycle keeps repeating because:
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You’ve given so much in past relationships that you lost sight of your own needs, desires, and worth.
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You prioritized his happiness over yours, adjusting to fit his world while neglecting your own.
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You lack boundaries or struggle to enforce them, fearing it would push him away.
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Deep down, you’ve questioned if you’re enough, wondering if love always requires sacrifice at the cost of your peace.
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You’ve been automatically drawn to men who dim your light, make you doubt yourself, and leave you feeling unworthy of true love.
You’ve Always Had That Vision.
Of the woman you were meant to be.
Of the love you’ve always dreamed of.
and of HIM.
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He is emotionally available, communicates with honesty and clarity, and shows up consistently without games.
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He has the courage to meet your intensity with equal passion and the stability to make you feel safe.
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With him you feel deeply desired and completely at peace cause you can literally FEEL that the relationship is finally healthy.
And in order to get HIM, you need to become HER.
The Transformation You've Been Waiting For
When you commit to doing the deep inner work, you transform into the woman who:
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Stops people-pleasing and becomes fully confident in herself and in her relationships with men.
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Magnetic & confident
Her clarity and self-respect naturally attract the right man, no bending or compromising required.
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Emotionally intelligent & self-aware
Understands her feelings, patterns, and reacts consciously instead of automatically, creating healthy, fulfilling relationships.
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Authentic & unapologetic
Lives by her values and needs without ever feeling like a burden or guilty for being too much.
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Decisive & assertive
Makes her decisions, sets boundaries, and enforces them consistently to keep the bare minimum out and the right one in.
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Recognizes red flags instantly, trusting her intuition to weed out the wrong ones.
And the second you become that woman, the right man and relationship have no other choice but to appear in your life.
You’ve already tried...
You promise change, but old habits pull you back. You lowered your standards and compromised, but it keeps you stuck. Even Therapy did not help.
Affirmations, “just think positive” strategies, or playing hard to get. None of it truly shifts how you feel inside. External validation, like appearance or status, can’t replace real self-worth.
Exhausting manifestation routines where you’re chasing instead of attracting - burning out instead of building real confidence.
The Confidence Codes™
What you need instead
The codes that turn you into the woman who effortlessly attracts what’s meant for her - my proven approach to lasting confidence and love, so you naturally call in the man from your vision board.
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FOCUS
Expand your Standards & Desires
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EMPOWER
Step into Unshakable Self-Worth
This next step is THE game-changer:
We uncover and dissolve the core beliefs and blocks that keep you stuck in self-doubt, so you feel deeply and unshakably worthy of your new set standards no matter what any man does or doesn’t do.
When your self-worth is solid from within Mr. Bare Minimum’s low effort will no longer make you question yourself or try harder to earn love but it’ll simply make you lose interest and move on without a second thought.
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EMBRACE
Take Action.
Step 3 is where it all clicks:
Together, we turn your standards and rediscovered self-worth into aligned action which is so deeply embodied that anything less than the love you desire simply stops making sense.
Which means: Mr. Bare Minimum won’t even stand a chance anymore.
After Step 3 your standards become second nature and as natural to you as breathing.
No more wondering if you deserve it or if you’re enough.
And no more anxious attachment.
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ALIGN
Trust your Intuition
Time for the best part:
Your intuition. We reconnect you with your inner knowing which is your built-in superpower that spots red flags before they even show up.
We get you to a point where you trust your intuition fully, so that you stop second-guessing, overthinking, or seeking outside validation. You just KNOW. And from that place, you make bold, clear choices that lead you straight to the love you truly deserve.
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AMPLIFY
Set Boundaries to protect your Power
This is where we solidify your entire transformation.
With your unshakable standards, radiant self-worth, unwavering trust, and razor-sharp intuition, we give it the final touch: we anchor strong boundaries that effortlessly filter out the wrong men and let the right ones in.
You’ll no longer tolerate disrespect or low effort.
There will only be space for secure, emotionally available, high-quality love.
This process takes time but it’s lasting forever, because it’s not just change, it’s a whole identity shift. It transforms the way you show up for yourself and in every relationship, so you naturally attract the love you truly deserve.
And the best part? The ripple effect touches your friendships, family, co-workers and every other relationship you have as well ;)
Work With Me
There are two ways to work with me long-term: one dives straight into full transformation, the other uncovers the root cause and starts the shift.
Both are built on my proven Confidence Codes™ - the foundation of all my work.
My Signature Mentoring-Program
Private Mentoring - 5 Months
You want the full transformation:
from people pleasing men to confidently attracting healthy love.
You’re ready to go all in, be held to your highest standard, and create REAL lasting change in your love life.
HERE IS WHAT YOU GET:
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Book of Love - A workbook designed with 5 chapters, featuring individualized journal prompts to build self-awareness and gain clarity.
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10 Transformation Sessions - We go deep, rip out the root causes, and rewire your patterns so you stop attracting what you don’t want.
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Messenger Support (Mon–Fri) - Because the biggest “aha” moments don’t wait for our calls. When it hits, I’m right there in your pocket with the exact guidance you need
HOW WE DO THAT
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Awareness – Pinpoint exactly what’s been holding you back in love, from hidden patterns to deep-rooted beliefs.
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Anchor – Create tailored strategies to dissolve those blocks, therefore lasting change becomes inevitable.
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Embody – Step by step, integrate these shifts into your dating and relationship life so your breakthroughs stick and naturally elevate your love life (and ripples to other areas)
In this container, I’m by your side every step of the way, always here for guidance, support, your questions, celebrations, and breakthroughs.
5.500,-€
The Short Version - Intensive
Private Mentoring - 1 Month
This is for you if you have one specific challenge that’s been holding you back in your love life and you’re ready to laser-focus on solving it right now. You want clarity and a solution.
If you struggle with one Confidence Code specifically, this container is the best option.
OUR FOCUS
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Identifying what’s really holding you back
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Create a tailored plan you can apply immediately, with strategies to keep you empowered and confident.
WHAT YOU GET
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specific Journalquestions – your personal clarity booster to uncover the root cause, so we can dive deep in our very first call
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1 Kick-off Call - to uncover the issue
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1 Closing Session - to create your future action plan with fresh ideas, new insights, and clear next steps.
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4 weeks Messenger Support (Mon - Wed) – Daily accountability and personalized feedback for questions, breakthroughs, or those moments of doubt.
Real talk:
In one month, we can uncover the block, create a clear solution, and kickstart your transformation.
But lasting, deeper change takes time - exactly what the 5-Month Mentoring is designed for.
You can start with one month and upgrade to the 5-Month Mentoring anytime for the full transformation.
950,-€
Transform Your Love & Life for Good 🔥
Other coaches may tell you to "settle" or "lower your standards."
They may give you a list of superficial strategies or dating tips.
But in Project: Real Love™, we reject all of that.
Instead, we focus on inner transformation:
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Becoming the high-value woman who doesn’t need to chase love, because it’s naturally drawn to her.
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Aligning your energy to attract emotionally available men who meet you on every level.
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Building lasting self-confidence and power from within, not dependent on external factors.
Choosing this mentorship means committing to deep, lasting transformation. Not just in your love life, but in every relationship you build. This journey is about stepping into your power, breaking unhealthy patterns, and literally changing your identity.
Love won’t be a struggle anymore it will flow effortlessly because you’ve become the person who aligns with it.
By stepping into your power, you’ll naturally attract healthy, fulfilling connections.
You are worthy of deep, secure, and joyful love.
Project: Real Love™ is your path to creating it - starting with the love you give yourself.
Meet Madeleine
- the Heart behind Project: Real Love™
Six years ago, she was just like you: lost, stuck in unhealthy patterns, and constantly seeking validation from men who never truly saw her. She felt like she wasn’t enough, yet was often told she was "too much." She poured everything into relationships that drained her, unsure of who she really was without someone else’s approval.
But that all changed when she made a choice: She decided to stop living for others and reclaim her power. She realized she didn’t know how to be truly herself without seeking validation. Fear of rejection, social anxiety, and the need to please kept her stuck in toxic relationships with men who couldn’t meet her needs.
She had a vision: of a woman who knew her worth, who loved herself fully, and wasn’t afraid to set boundaries.
And that’s exactly who she became.
The moment she shifted her focus inward, she learned to trust her intuition, set clear boundaries, and stopped tolerating anything less than the love she knew she deserved. It wasn’t about trying harder or being someone she wasn’t. It was about breaking free from old, limiting patterns and stepping into her own power.
And the best part? That’s when she finally attracted the kind of man who could love her deeply, without games, without excuses.
Now, she is here to help you do the same.
If you’re tired of attracting the wrong men, if you’re ready to finally stop questioning your worth and start owning your value, she is here to guide you through that transformation. She has done the hard work to transform her life, and now she’s here to help you build that same strong, unshakable foundation for love. It’s time to stop chasing and start attracting the love you truly deserve.
Love isn’t luck - it’s something you create within yourself first, so it can find you on the outside.
Are You ready?
I only work with a handful of women in private 1:1 mentoring and nothing else. No one-size-fits-all courses.
Just deeply personal, high-level transformation.
This means you’ll get:
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My undivided attention
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A customized coaching experience tailored specifically to you
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Exclusive, deep transformation that you can’t get anywhere else.
I deeply value precision, exclusivity, and most of all lasting transformation.
So this is not for everyone. This is for the women who are ready to go all in. Ready to do the deep work. Ready to transform 🤍.
Apply now and start your transformation.
Let's make it happen together!
PS: I work internationally in English and German 🇺🇸 🇩🇪.